“It’s a recession when your neighbor loses his job;
it’s a depression when you lose yours.” Harry
S Truman
We are
all depressed, with no exception; just do not deny or stigmatize depression. It
is because we are living in a world of depression that can make us unhappy in
many different ways, and we are all vulnerable.
Depression is
always an inner struggle against unhappiness and insecurity; it is a deliberate
and desperate but futile attempt to lose contact with the realities of life.
Depression is no more than a mental escape from the inescapable.
Depression is
evidenced by many symptoms that may be imperceptible in the beginning, but
these symptoms often get worse if they are not properly addressed.
Depression
begins in the mind, affecting the emotions and feelings of an individual, with
some of the most common symptoms, including the following:
Lethargy and loss of appetite
A
depressed individual begins to feel lethargy and listlessness without any
apparent reason. The mind simply refuses to function, causing physical
tiredness and even loss of appetite.
Involuntary tendency to weep
Many
depressed individuals get the sudden “weeps”—a tale-telling sign of the
beginning of depression.
Irritability and hostility
A
depressed individual, who is often passive or inactive, may express
irritability towards someone who wishes to activate that individual physically
or mentally.
A
depressed individual may also initially express hostility directed towards
someone who has rejected or insulted him or her, before turning that hostility
inward at himself or herself.
Sadness and hopelessness
The
most common symptom of depression, of course, is feeling sadness and
hopelessness that may drag over a long period of time. The almost worldwide symptom
of all depressed people is withdrawal from
others, including the loved ones due to their loss of affection for self and
others.
The
bottom line: overcome your depression not by avoiding it with distractions, not
by taking medications to suppress its symptoms, but by going through it with TAO
wisdom, known as the Way, the ancient wisdom from China more than 2,600 years ago.
The Way is the only way.
Stephen Lau
Copyright© by Stephen Lau
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